Is it just me or has the retail industry gotten a little ahead of themselves lately? I mean obviously they need to have certain items in stores ahead of when they are actually needed but seriously, have the people who look after these things decided that the calendar is now completely irrelevant?
This year the Halloween costumes were in my local store at pretty much the same time as the school supplies. The first time I saw them I panicked – is it that time already? Man, I better pick up the kids’ costumes before they all get picked over! Picked over? It was barely September for goodness sakes!
I used to pat myself on the back whenever I was (surprisingly) organized enough to have clothes purchased and ready in advance of the changing seasons. Now, however, it seems that I’m now expected to be two seasons ahead and have the super hero ability to be able to predict what clothing and shoe sizes my kids are going to be six months from now.
Looking for a winter jacket in November? Too late, all that’s left in stores are extra small or extra large – and both in colours that the kids won’t go anywhere near. Forget that it’s still Fall outside – don’t even bother asking the cashier if they have any more sizes in the back, he’ll look at you as if you just asked him to sew you one from scratch. Apparently the time to buy winter clothes is four months before you’re actually going to wear them.
Looking for a bathing suit in June? Nope, they’re pretty much all gone by mid-April. I live north of the Great Lakes – no one here is wearing a bathing suit in April!!
My local home decor store was fully decked out for Christmas more than two weeks ago; complete with four themed trees and miles and miles of little twinkly lights. What ever happened to waiting until December? Or forget December, what ever happened to waiting until Halloween was done?
I had to send my husband to Costco at the beginning of September to buy new Christmas garlands because I knew they would be gone in less than a week. When he arrived back from his errand he informed me he got the last two. For real. Then I had to find room to stash them in the garage for two and a half months, waiting for it to actually be Christmas time.
I get stressed every time I go shopping now, feeling horribly behind before I even get started. What an awful mother I must be if I left buying winter boots until October. What ever made me think that was an okay thing to do?
It’s November and I haven’t finished my Christmas shopping yet? I’ll never get it done in time now! Is it any wonder that I’m usually tired of the holidays long before they even arrive? Am I the only one who thinks it’s wrong to drink eggnog while wearing shorts and a tank top? How special are the decorations, music and cookies, when you have them for two months instead of just a couple of weeks? By the time December 25 finally rolls around I just want to pack it all away and be rid of the whole thing.
And when I finally get the last box of decorations packed away I will (mistakenly) think I can relax for a month or so.
That is until my next trip to the store reveals that the Easter baskets, patio sets and flip flops are now on clearance.
I couldn’t agree more!!! Talk about pushing time away..and we haven’t even turned the clocks back yet!
I hear ya. It is crazy how early the retailers start jamming holiday stuff down our throats. Too bad our holiday vacations can’t get started as early.
I agree!!! I’d be much happier about it if I could start my vacation now too!
Thank you for this post!! I am right there with you. I go from disbelief that I am seeing Christmas decorations in September, to irritation that I am feeling rushed to live my life in a hyper frenzy, to depression that maybe I don’t have it all together like the other cool moms. Our culture just doesn’t know how to live in the present. What if we organized a massive boycott and nobody bought anything until it was actually time? Don’t see that happening, but it’s a thought.
Yes, it is strange. I’ve seen Christmas decorations start to appear in August, even *rolls eyes*
This is so true. I really hate how far behind I feel due to the retail stores being so far ahead. I try not to hate Christmas before it even arrives but it is getting harder and harder to do so.
I hear you!! It’s only November and I’m wishing the holiday season was done already! ;o)
Someone on my street put up their Christmas lights already – and I even know a couple of girls who have their Christmas tree up! It seems that some people are okay with everything being pushed forward, but I’m with you. One event at at time – at the right time – please!